

I grew up in Halifax, Nova Scotia, Canada and then moved to Toronto at age 27. For a large of my adult life I pursued a creative career. I had my own flower business. I was an exotic dancer in the 70's and 80's. Throughout the 90's, I had a fun and full time career as a stage magician with my speciality being dove magic and fire artistry. I performed the magic with a dance presentation. In 1996, I got into acting and I am still a member of ACTRA, the Canadian Actor's Union. I've been dancing since I came out of the womb and it remains one of my passions and secrets to youthfulness.
I was quite happy with my career of acting, magic, dance, and art. Then one day changed everything. It was November, 1999. I was standing in a Toronto subway and across from me was a billboard that said: "Teenage prostitution is child abuse." I went into shock. You see, that child was me. Like many sexual abuse victims, I blamed myself, and I carried a secret shame and lack of worth for years. I kept this secret hidden from the world and I was good at it. I appeared more confident than I actually was. I was seen as elegant, playful, and creative. Until that moment, it hadn't even occured to me that I had been a victim of abuse.
My childhood before teens was quite happy and I always felt loved by my amazing mother. However, I was determined to start an early independent life, so when I left home prematurely at age 16, everything changed. I was naive and much later in life, I discovered I am also neurodivergent. This combination made me easy prey.
Later that day in 1999, I had a breakdown, that very quickly transcended into a breakthrough. This sent me on a spiritual journey having my own conversations with God about my sexual expression and how it integrated with my spirituality... my light body. My sexual healing journey continued for a few more years. Over time, what I discovered is truly beautiful and profound and I knew I had to share it with others.
This sparked my desire to work other women clear their sexual wound imprint and integrate who they are as divine love intelligence within their beautiful human body. I now also work with men guiding them on their healing path. My book, The Four Sacred Laws of Sexual Enlightenment, is a culmination of my life's experience, knowledge and wisdom that I have gained through decades of this sacred sexual exploration journey.


In 2002 after moving to Vancouver, I attended a T. Harv Eker seminar. It was my first time being at a seminar event. I was fascinated by the facilitators. I thought how wonderful to have a job where you can impact so many lives and also work from the stage... this appealed to the stage performer in me. So, I approached Harv, and he quickly hired me to facilitate a breakthrough process where I lead rooms of 200 - 400 participants to move through their fears from a space of calm through the art of fire eating. I continued to be a lead facilitator at Harv's event every summer from 2002 to 2019. That is what introduced me to a career of facilitation.
The more I explored and became certified in various healing modalities and witnessed the results, the more I wanted to make facilitation and coaching my primary focus. Sacred Sexual Healing & Enlightenment was my personal journey of exploration and discovery, and what inspired me to help others do the same.
Now years later at age 70, I have become a leader in this field. I have honed my ability to guide others to clear their sexual wound imprint, and to fully integrate the beauty of their spirituality... whatever that is to them, with their sexual expression. I believe this is a truly powerful contribution to the ascension process.
My healing abilities and expertise, combined with my love of dance, retreats, and community has evolved into this body of work that I now offer on this Feminine Artistry™ website.
I have developed a deep love of writing over the years and am the author of 3 books. My most in depth book is, The Four Sacred Laws of Sexual Enlightenment, endorsed by Don Miguel Ruiz, author of The Four Agreements. I have now authored the newly released, Pleasure & Prosperity — Your Sacred Archetype Blueprint. My first book, The Playful Partnership is currently off the market and up for revisions.
Through the developing of my facilitation abilities, the guidance of incredible mentors, and through the constant guidance of my Divine Team, I have transcended decades of my own inner journey to guide thousands of workshop participants and clients through their own healing and expansion.
I am a Certified Holistic Rebirther, Compassion Key® Master Practitioner/Circle Leader Teacher, Satori Protocol Facilitator, Reiki Master Teacher, Sacred Money Archetype® Coach, and certified in Mental Health First Aid. I have also trained in Intimacy Coordination for film. I have been blessed to appear on platforms with some of the most world renowned spiritual mentors.


I now embrace a life as a vibrant elder, savoring the joy of being in a body as a Sacred, Sexual, Sovereign Being. I express myself through dance, art, community, and the work I offer on this site.
My name Jaitara came to me through a vision, that appeared through prayer 2009. It means: Behold the Mother of Liberation. It is in perfect mathematical balance with my birthdate.
I am an author, spiritual guide, facilitator of healing, facilitator of transformational dance, meditation channel, breathworker, women's empowerment coach, and couple's intimacy coach.
I am an ordained Priestess, which basically means I am a conduit between the physical and the spiritual realm, and I share my work from a space of service and devotion.
Beautiful Soul, it is my deep honor to serve you.









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